Possibly, the shortest blogging break in history… and the longest explanation why!


Yesterday, in a post featured on this blog, I declared that I was going to ‘follow the signs’ and take a break from blogging. I declared this, despite saying in the post that I wasn’t taking a full break, as I would continue with various blogging features I participate in.

I also said that visitor numbers are down; but in fact, they are up each month compared to the entire first year I was blogging, so they’re not down at all, all things considered. And I still receive regular comments from my regular visitors anyway, so that’s no reason to have a break. Thank you, commenters!

Maybe the signs were actually steering me away from having a break… merely pointing out things that I need to notice.

However, that said, yesterday I was set on taking a break and left it at that.

I went to bed last night, and had a night full of vivid dreams. Dreams featuring people I know, hundreds of people I know (some who I haven’t seen for a very long time).

We were all at a rally of some kind in a town centre. I was originally there with one of my cousins and his wife, but as I was chatting to all of the other people who I met, they had eventually mingled into the crowd. Others coming forward when others stepped back. Dreams always have a surreal feel to them, even though they feel real at the time!

Whilst I was chatting to an old work colleague, who was pregnant incidentally, a spotlight shone on me, and a well known TV personality appeared from the crowd. His name isn’t important, as he’s a British TV show host, and I’m not sure if he’s known around the world. He advised me, and the hordes of others present, that I had come second in something I have no idea what (that’s the power of dreams – the most important facts seem to be the easiest forgotten as well!!!). I felt good at coming second, and that’s what’s important.

From the rally, my pregnant colleague and I had to take a passenger lift in a building to the next floor down. How we ended up inside this building when we were originally outside, is beyond me. The lift was one of those olde worldie ones, where there was an outer and an inner door that opened separately. The outer door opened first, and then the inner one, which revealed that the lift hadn’t reached the floor properly. It jolted down, causing the people inside to gasp, and then they all left the lift quickly.

My colleague and I got into the lift, and an electronic voice said “Doors closing.” as voices in lifts tend to do. The lift started to move, and then the voice said “Brace yourselves for impact. Obtain the crash position”. My colleague and I instantly crouched to our knees, the ceiling of the lift came down to just above our heads, and we felt the lift fall down the shaft to the next floor.

An alarm sounded, which at first I thought was the lift alarm, but it was actually my alarm clock trying to wake me up for the day.

In my dream, the lift doors opened again, and both my colleague and I got out, unharmed. There were more people standing there, and one of them asked me what it felt like to come second. I was about to speak when I heard another voice say “What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.” Odd. Yes, I know.

It was then that I woke up, ten minutes after my alarm, and had to dash around to get myself ready for the day. Oversleeping wouldn’t have been the best course of action for today.

But, as my bath was running, I had a quick glance at both my blog, and the news on the BBC.

Andra has advised about some changes that may have had an effect on blogging visitor numbers around the world (please see the previous post for more details) and the BBC revealed that all online content, including blogs, is going to be stored in a library or two somewhere. Maybe not every blog, but that got me thinking.

The reason the online content is being stored, is for future historians, and research. Click here for the news article. Tweets and Facebook status updates will also be stored (only public ones, that is) – and the aim is for all websites to be archived and stored. This idea has come about due to some websites being deleted that would have contained very useful information relating to the time they were on line. This makes sense to me, as long as it is only information that is publicly available… which publicly available blogs are.

My posts may be mere drivel at times, but for a future historian looking back onto our ancient civilisation they may be invaluable, once they’re discovered in some dark and dusty cellar somewhere and deciphered.

And here’s the reason I started thinking: what if bloggers are being quietly pushed to one side… Being coerced into taking a break, and then never returning to the fantastic world of blogging? Many a suggestion can be filtered between the words we read…

The changes that I have noticed in the blogging world have become very noticeable of late. It is fun, blogging, and visitor numbers don’t matter unless we’re selling anything. In my first month of blogging I felt as though I was writing only to myself, nobody visited… yet I continued. Now, my visitor numbers are much higher than they were back then, but as they are lower than I feel they should be I’m feeling something is lacking. I had the feeling that, because of this, I needed to take a break.  Something isn’t right there.

We could now be in an ideal time to add a voice to how the normal folk live, in addition to all of the usual famous folk who usually fill the pages of history books… although we won’t be able to, if we don’t blog.

Yes, we are busy in our real lives.

Yes, we sometimes lack inspiration for our blog posts.

Yes, we may write drivel.

But we can do it. We have the facility to do so. Even if only one person reads what we have to write, that other person may be inspired to do similar, or do something different in their life. We have the ability to inspire others. Regardless of what search engines or social media sites do to try to change things. If we can’t be found through search engines, we need to come up with better ways in which we can be found.

We can only do this if we continue blogging.

If we keep on keeping on.

And that is why I’m not taking a break.

Now, as you were.

33 responses to “Possibly, the shortest blogging break in history… and the longest explanation why!”

  1. shreejacob avatar

    Hi!!! *waves* I’m back!! 😀
    And glad to see that you’re back too! I’ve been not blogging for some time now…I took an unofficial, unannounced break…hehe.
    I have LOADS of posts to catch up on..and it feels SO daunting!!!! Can’t wait to see what I’ve missed though! Your blog posts are some of the ones that I thoroughly enjoy 😀

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      Hello once again, Shree!
      There have been a few changes around here, which you may notice… a few more are in the pipeline!
      And welcome back! It’s good to see you again! 😀
      Oh, and I know how that catching up feeling feels!!!

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      1. shreejacob avatar

        Mhmmm..I noticed the changes 😀

        and a double Mhmmmmm…glad to report I’ve been hard at work (at work) working on catching up! 😀

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        1. Tom Merriman avatar

          Enjoy working, Shree! 😀

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  2. nrhatch avatar

    Welcome back!

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      Thank you, Nancy. It feels like the break never happened!

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  3. Let's CUT the Crap! avatar

    Taking a break is daunting. How does one catch up?
    Welcome back, Tom. You didn’t want to miss out on anything, did you, once you realized you’d said good by? Right?

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      Ah, you saw through my reasoning, Tess!
      Actually, when I wrote the post, I was determined to have a complete break for a few days, and then only comment on other blogs for aother few, before taking up the weekly ‘challenges’ that I do. My mind changed almost immediately as I slept.
      Thank you for welcoming me back! 🙂

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  4. Andra Watkins avatar

    Glad to see you back. 🙂

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      Thanks, Andra… it was a good break away! 😉

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  5. SidevieW avatar

    write first for yourself, tyhen for others. just how many visitors do you think you should have? I’m fascinated by people who are driven by those numbers. Personally I would rather communicate with just a few and get to know them, than have hundreds, probably all exdpecting something back from me for their comments and feeling pressurised.

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      I agree with you entirely, Sideview! We blog because we want to, not because we have to!

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  6. prenin avatar

    Welcome back Tom! 🙂

    They do say a change is as good as a break! 🙂

    I too have no love of elevators so I can relate to your dream! 😦

    My worse dreams were those involving an elevator in a tall building which had no doors, no walls and a hideous gap all around which forced me to kneel so I wouldn’t fall through!!! 😦

    Scary stuff… 🙂

    God Bless my friend! 🙂

    Prenin.

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      Thank you, Prenin. Elevators are scary… I don’t use them unless I really need to, as my heavy breathing knows only too ell after hauling myself up countless flights of stairs! I wasn’t too bad in them, but years ago I visited the World Trade Center in New York, and used the lift there. After what happened, I imagine how it would have felt to be in the lift as it did (I had a couple of dreams about it as well…), and that’s what put me off them. Irrational, I know, but I’m also slightly claustrophobic, so that doesn’t help!

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      1. prenin avatar

        I can relate to that Tom! 😦

        I have to admit to demophobia which is a fear of crowds, so being in an elevator with far too many people is NOT my favourite place to be!!! 😦

        Unfortunately I can no longer use long flights of stairs because of my bad joints, but I need to climb two flights to get to my flat, so some days are pretty painful… 😦

        9/11 was very upsetting to me too Tom, I had nightmares of people jumping from the burning building for months afterwards as I’d watched the whole thing unfold on TV.

        I guess I’m a sensitive soul…

        God Bless!

        Prenin.

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        1. Tom Merriman avatar

          When things like that happen, Prenin, I think it’s hard not to be sensitive.
          I have six flights of stairs to climb at work. I feel as though I’ve ran a marathon when I reach the top some days! And I do that climb seven or eight times a day… you’d think I’d be used to it by now!

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  7. The Laughing Housewife avatar

    It’s like that WWII diary project, but on a global scale. Fascinating!

    And ego-stroking – we are to be saved for posterity!

    I have slowed down but not stopped, and I feel better for it. I now blog when I feel like it and the pressure is off.

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      Exactly, Tilly… although I hope they don’t save all of my drivel… most of it, but not all… my ego’s happy with that.
      Yes, blogging should be fun, and not a chore. It’s a case of finding the right balance, I think, between blogging and everything else.

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      1. The Laughing Housewife avatar

        The secret to a happy life 🙂

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  8. Sue Dreamwalker avatar

    First Tom, you never write Drivel..
    Second, I think many of us have been experiencing those same feelings,
    Third… our dream-times are really getting interesting Mine too….. have been amazing this last 2 weeks..
    Forth- We share so much with each other in our blogs I can see why they may be historic…
    Fifth- Like you I just enjoy writing and communicating,but sometimes I just like to chill in some ME Time… and thats when I take a break… And when I do I usually concentrate on something else like I took time out to paint.
    and Lastly- I am pleased your short-break was minuscule … Because I do love to read your blog and thoughts…
    have a great rest of the weekend Tom. ~Sue

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      Sue, thank you for all of your thoughts on all points,
      The dreams… yes… they’re being very interesting and in-depth at the moment. I’m glad that it isn’t only me experiencing them!

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      1. Sue Dreamwalker avatar

        No Tom it isnt, In fact although I have always been a avid Dreamer all my life, My Dreams especially these last few months have been more colourful and vivid than ever before, In fact in some I think Fantasiser would be the word to describe them 🙂

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        1. Tom Merriman avatar

          They’re the best kind of dream, Sue! The fantasy world is sometimes so much better than the real one!

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  9. penpusherpen avatar

    communication is the key to all things human, methinks Sir Aquatom, , ’tis what enriches our lives. if we don’t we stagnate, as in there’s no growth in understanding about ourselves and other people… We respond through words. spoken or written, and I for one enjoy your written words, (not to say I wouldn’t enjoy your spoken words, just erm… you know what I mean) … anywho, your dream was detailed. and I know some say dreams are important to help us understand what our subconscious is trying to tell us (I doubt I ever will understand mine, ’tis very scary) and learn how to take charge of our lives.. (methinks a more straight forward way would be much easier than hints.. dontchathink?) … I enjoy blogging, always will, it’s just as you say tho’ , sometimes a feeling comes that one needs a break, and for me that feeling is strongest when I find myself worrying about the poems I write being … how shall I say?,… not up to scratch. I suppose we all feel self critical at some stage, ’tis the nature of the beast that is blogland… We share our innermost thoughts, and await a response, no matter what that response may be… ’tis us communicating on the WWW, being human… xPenx

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      I agree, Pen, communication is key.
      I have to wonder, though, with regards to the hints… if we were given clear instructions as to what to do, would we do it? Hints make it more interesting… well, they do for me, anyway… but sometimes, a crystal clear sign – and perhaps a gentle shove – would also be appreciated! 😀

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  10. Jo Bryant avatar

    well thank goodness it was a short break Tom…though it can at times overwhelm us bloggers

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      It was, Jo, less than a day in fact!
      Yes, at times there is a lot to do… but we manage!

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  11. lameadventures avatar

    I don’t think about blogging for posterity, but I do think that if you enjoy it, absolutely, positively continue to keep doing it.

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      I never gave posterity a thought with my blogs either, until I saw the article, LA… although I’ve often wondered what happens to the files we delete from our computers…

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      1. lameadventures avatar

        My dear Tom, I think in the grand scheme that none of us are of much significance beyond our own small circles of friends and family. Once we exit this life, and all those that knew us and liked or loved or even loathed us exit theirs, it’s as if most of us never existed. The way I see it what matters most is now. I think about the future in little ways i.e., remembering a birthday or making sure I have the rent covered, but in the far-flung future, I’d rather put the energy one might invest into thinking about that into watching tennis.

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        1. Tom Merriman avatar

          Maybe not, LA… and it wouldn’t really matter to us if we were significant either, once we’ve gone… but while now matters, it’s nice to think that what we do may be of some significance, either for now or the future. I’d lose my now if I watched tennis though… it sends me to sleep!

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  12. Sue Dreamwalker avatar

    Glad to have caught up again Tom…. phew! feels like I am on a Marathon today as I try to catch up with my friends… Enjoy! and so pleased you are here still blogging!

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    1. Tom Merriman avatar

      Catching up is fun, but there’s so much when it has to be done, Sue, isn’t there???
      And thanks… I can’t resist it, being honest!

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