Reaching out

I’ve decided to add a new page to my blog for recommendations. Any blogs that I come across and enjoy will be mentioned there. It is just another way for me to continue to feel good, and besides it keeps all of my favourite site links all in one place. My memory isn’t what it used to be, so I don’t need to remember all those addresses along with everything else! I’m not reviewing the blogs or anything, it is just a page of links really, but if the site is there it is because I like something about it. It may be that it has made me think, or I like a particular post therein. With my experience of coincidences I believe I was meant to find those blogs for a reason, so they deserve a mention.

I reached out last night to someone I don’t know very well. She was one of the barmaids in my local haunt (the one where I sit in the corner) and it was her last night, she was leaving as she was starting a new day job. Thinking back, she probably thought I was rambling on and couldn’t wait to get away from me, but I wasn’t. I like to go on about doing the best for ourselves, and I was telling myself as much as I was telling her that she shouldn’t just chase her dream – she should grab hold of it. Chasing it may just push it further away. She seemed to get what I was saying though, and wanted to serve me with my final drink before I left, which I thought was quite nice considering I sometimes thought she didn’t like me that much. So when I left I hugged her and wished her good luck for the future.

It doesn’t sound like much, but it made me feel quite good. I sound like I’m being selfish, but I’m not. I do like to feel good, and I also like to share that feeling with people when I can too.

I like it when we are on the same wavelength, so to speak.